The actions we perceive as shyness are a sign of various situations. Some kids need more time to warm up to a group or a new peer. Some kids don't have enough practice in social situations to feel comfortable jumping right in to the action. Some kids are tentative about new situations. And some are, yes, shy. Most of these situations can be overcome through practice and encouragement, and most of all, through maturity.

Here are a few ideas to move your child along in this area.

Solution #1: Invite one child to your home at a time for a play date. After a time, invite two friends over. In the comfort of his own home, your child will usually feel more comfortable and get to know the other children. He can then transfer that comfort to other social settings.

Solution #2: Play alongside your child until he feels comfortable and interacts with another child. Gradually move away from the group but stay close enough for your child to still see you.

Solution #3: Allow your child to watch other children for a while before joining in. Some children need to scope out the situation and absorb what's happening before they participate. Pushing a child to get involved before he's ready will make him more uncomfortable.

Solution #4: Some children are comfortable and content in their quiet way of interacting with the world. They have one or two good friends, are doing well emotionally and physically, and are happy and self confident. Make sure you aren't assuming a problem where one doesn't really exist!

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