It's unlikely that children this young are purposely excluding your daughter. It's more likely that their age difference is the culprit. Your 2-year-old is at a different social level of maturity than the 3- and 4- year-olds she is spending her day with. It is not uncommon for age-mates to gravitate towards each other since they share similar interests. Also, since the other children have been in the same situation for the last few years they are very comfortable with the surroundings, whereas your daughter has many new things to adjust to.

The good news is that most children at this age adapt rather quickly. It would help if you talk with your childcare providers about the situation. Express your concerns and ask for their help. If they encourage your daughter to get involved in the group play, and set up situations where the children are directed towards a game or activity that naturally lends itself to group participation, your little one should soon find herself in the middle of a new group of friends.

If your childcare providers are not willing to talk with you, or to help your daughter make the adjustment, then I suggest looking into a situation that would be more nurturing for her. That said, I have found that most providers are willing and happy to help once a parent has called a problem to their attention.

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