Nann Ashford remembers all too clearly the heart-wrenching mornings she
endured sending her son off to preschool.
"I would have to put him on the bus and buckle him in," Ashford, of Traverse City, Mich., recalls of bidding her son, Alex, goodbye. "He was crying and I would have to leave him on the bus crying. It was horrible."
A child may show his distress by becoming apprehensive about entering a new setting, not making eye contact with the teacher or caregiver, clinging to his parent or possibly throwing a temper tantrum. |
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Teachers told Ashford that her son was fine once he arrived, but she still felt uneasy about the situation. "At home he wouldn't talk about [what he did at preschool] and that scared me," she says.
She also couldn't ignore her son's behavior at daycare later in the day. "He wouldn't nap and he was disruptive," she says, adding that his exhaustion made for chaotic evenings at home.
My grandchild has been at her preschool for six weeks, and is showing rather disturbed behaviour - trying to kill her teddy, being very clingy at home, throwing tantrums when she realises that it is time to go to school. You give no indication when anxiety separation symptoms border on a dangerous and possibly damaging experience for a child. She will be three in January. She is very articulate, but becomes very withdrawn when she is at school. My daughter is at her wits end, and feels that she should perhaps not send her to school at all. She has tried all your suggestions, but the problem is not going away.
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