It's a new year. Time for new perspectives, attitudes, and – if you're under the age of 5 in my house – behaviors. Never mind the standard resolutions to eat better, lose a few pounds or clean more frequently. Let's be honest, we make them every year and every year we barely stick with them past January 6. This year, let's make a few realistic resolutions that will ensure a more stress-free lifestyle.

It's time for a cleansing. Don't worry; I am not referring to your house – yet. I'm asking you to cleanse your frazzled mind. Leave all the frustrations, challenges and tantrums of the past year behind.

Said Norman Cousins, an author, poet and writer, "Life is an adventure in forgiveness." Take a minute (or an hour, if necessary) to forgive your children for the things they damaged or destroyed last year. Forgive your husband for not realizing or acknowledging with enough frequency how much you accomplish each day. Forgive yourself for reacting less than calmly in your more frustrating moments. Wipe the slate clean. Remember that this year, your children will likely lose their interest in the breakables of yesteryear. Your husband has another 365 days to work toward the moment when you can no longer ask in desperation, "Honey, when are you going to get it?"

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