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What Does Extended Nursing Really Mean?

Extended NursingFill in the blank: Breastfeeding is great up until the age of _____________. What comes to mind when you hear the words "extended nursing"? Extended beyond what? What is the average age of weaning in the culture where you live? How long is the longest you would consider nursing your baby? Have you ever thought about it?

Breastfeeding is a natural feeding choice. In the United States, some mothers begin breastfeeding, planning to continue for six weeks or six months or one year. As the babies reach those ages, weaning begins. Other mothers begin breastfeeding with similar plans, but those plans alter as their babies grow. Perhaps these moms realize how important the breastfeeding relationship is to them and their babies, or they may find parenting easier with breastfeeding. In the end, these moms may decide to "extend" their plans a bit.

The World Health Organization (WHO) encourages breastfeeding for at least two years.

A Historical Perspective
Contemplating the birth of my first child back in 1976, I planned to breastfeed her for six weeks. I'm not sure what made me plan to breastfeed for six weeks, but I believe several factors were involved in my decision. First, my mother had breastfed me for six weeks. I remembered as a child when she smilingly told me how important it was to "give your baby a good start." She also told me sadly that her milk dried up after six weeks. I assumed mine would too. (My mother was a heavy smoker, and it is now known that heavy smoking may affect the quantity of milk.)

Second, I was going back to work in six weeks. The formula samples and information I had received both at the hospital and in the mail had encouraged me to believe – in subtle and not so subtle ways – that it would soon be a necessary part of my baby's life. I was surrounded by slick baby magazines that assumed I would soon need those colorful bottles, nipples, pacifiers and cans of formula. Most everyone I knew was bottle-feeding. My personal culture had set me up for weaning my baby at six weeks.


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Anonymous says
November 19, 2009

Is it disgusting when other animals nurse their young...then why is it gross for humans to do the same? To me, it is gross for grown adults to insist on stealing the milk meant for baby cows. Uh, milk for cows is meant to grow huge, unintelligent animals. Not sleek, super-intelligent humans (maybe that is why so many Americans are now obese and not-so-smart, they were grown on formula made from cow's milk). Furthermore, why is it gross to drink human milk, but completely natural in the minds of Americans to drink milk from cows? Here is a clue: cow's milk is meant for a different species, not humans!!! The social programming in this country is so backwards, I can barely stand it. I have been nursing my daughter from her birth until now, 2 1/2 years later. She is the healthiest child her age I know. She rarely gets sick, and when she does, she gets over it really fast. I plan to continue until she is ready to be done. When she looks back on her nursing days, she will most likely feel warm and comforted. If you don't have personal memories of being breastfed, then you can't possibly know what memories these children will have. And, perhaps my child won't have the same shame so many Americans have about the human body and she will be able to appreciate it from a nonsexualized perspective.

anonymous says
September 5, 2009

I too had a a lot of pressure to wean- my 1st chid weaned herself @15mo and my second child weaned hmself @26mo- I got so tired of hearing your STIll breastfeeding! I started lying-That is what is sad,uneducated ppl who cannot see that I am doing what I best for MY child. Not what they think is the norm.

anonymous says
August 26, 2009

I think it's disgusting to breastfeed a child this long. Children this age are not on formula anymore, so why are they still on breast milk? Gross. Your child is going to be so embarrassed later in life when he finds out he was breastfed so long. Or even worse, the woman who is breastfeeding her 4 year old...he's going to have memories about it! I would be disgusted if I remembered being breastfed!

Breastfeeding is GREAT! says
August 26, 2009

I too am a nursing mother. My DD is 17 months old and all of my friends with babies bottle fed from day 1. They all think I am the nutty mom that is going to have a child with many behavorial issues because I choose to continue nursing. I don't care what they think, but it is always good to read articles to let me know that someone is on my side. My husband does not pressure me to stop, but my in-laws are questioning my judgment. Thank you for keeping me sane!
P.S. I plan to nurse for as long as it takes to get my DD to sleep without nursing! :))

anonymous says
August 25, 2009

I love articles like these! I am nursing mom and I nursed my first child till he was 22 months and he weaned because I gave birth to my second child. My second child is 16 months now and I am still nursing her frequently. I feel pressure all the time from outside people to wean her but neither one of us is ready to do that. I want to nurse as long as she needs and thanks to these articles I feel good about that.

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