728x90
my iParenting
From Our Sponsors
e-newsletters
Sign up to receive our free weekly e-newsletters

new terms of use
new privacy policy
award-winning products
The iParenting Media Awards program helps parents find the best products for their families.

Disagreeing With Your Pediatrician

What to Do When Opinions Collide

By Amy Carey Bowman

Pages:  1  2  3  4  

Your pediatrician is an important part of your support network, especially during those first years of your child's life when parenting is new and uncertain. Questions about vaccinations and growth curves alone are enough to keep any mom and dad up at night.

Parents should feel confident handing over some of this concern to their child's doctor. But what happens when parents and pediatricians disagree? Should you follow your instincts or simply trust your doctor to know what's best for your child?

Meeting of the Minds
Hilary Eriksen, a mother of two in San Jose, Calif., felt uncomfortable when her first child's pediatrician recommended nursing her 6-month-old less and giving her more solids. "Our daughter was very averse to solids and extremely happy nursing," says Eriksen. "But the doctor said nursing wasn't enough and [that] she needed solids soon."

Meanwhile, Eriksen's daughter was thriving, above average in size and learning something new every day. Unhappy with the advice, Eriksen sought out another doctor.

When her son was born, Eriksen decided to "stretch the truth" and tell her new doctor that her son was eating solids even when he wasn't. "I didn't want to have a similar experience with my son that I had with my daughter, even though I now had a different doctor," says Eriksen.

Like Eriksen, Clare Gordiski, a mother of twin boys who lives in Ansonia, Conn., is not opposed to stretching the truth here and there when it comes to hot-button issues about her children's health. When her doctor asks about her sleeping arrangements, for example, Gordiski leaves out key details about her family bed situation. She says she lies a little because she would rather make those kinds of decisions, such as where her babies sleep, by herself.

Truth of the Matter

Pages:  1  2  3  4  

Want to see more?

Comments

There are no comments for this article yet.Be the first to add a comment.

Post As:
Enter your comment below:
Title
Comment Text
CAPTCHA
Please note that any comments submitted become the property of Disney Family / iParenting and can be edited and posted at our discrection.