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Tiny Siblings, Big Concerns

Common Sibling Issues When Children Are Close in Age

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Low says you are right that you don't want your son to be afraid of interacting with his sister. "Simply monitor him when he is around the baby," she says. "Be matter-of-fact, rather than anxious in your approach. Give him lots of positive reinforcement."

If you see that he is getting too rough, correct him in a calm tone, Low says. "'Too rough. Remember, babies need gentle touches.' Again, demonstrate and guide his hand in the proper touch," she says. "You can even lower your voice when the baby is around to help model a gentle tone."

Sometimes adjusting to a new baby can be a little difficult for older siblings. "Your son is still a little one himself!" Low says. "Be sure to make an extra effort to spend one-on-one time with him while the baby is napping. Cuddling and reading books together is a great way to connect."

Board books are especially nice at this age. "Your son can help you turn the pages," Low says. "You may even pick out books that relate to the new baby."

Low suggests these titles:

  • I Kissed the Baby (Walker Books Ltd., 2004) by Mary Murphy
  • My New Baby (Child's Play International, 2000) illustrated by Annie Kubler – There are no words written, so you may make up ones that relate to your child's own experience.
  • I'm a Big Brother (Harper Collins, 2004) by Joanna Cole and Maxie Chambliss – It is not a board book, but it is a wonderfully simple and colorful book that your son may enjoy.

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