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Dad's New Role
Should a Worried Father-to-be Share His Concerns?
By Dr. Susan S. Bartell
But dads will be happy to know that finding themselves in this situation is wholly avoidable. The following ideas show you how:
- Don't be afraid to share your anticipated concerns with your wife – you're in this together, and your feelings count equally! Also, consider talking with male friends who have babies. You'll find that you're not alone.
- Take an active parenting role, even if you're nervous. Babies are not as fragile as they seem, and the more you practice, the better you'll get at it. Conversely, if you don't try, you'll never learn or be close to your baby – so, which seems like the better way?
- You may not be able to breastfeed, but you can do everything else: changing diapers, dressing, rocking in the middle of the night, bathing, feeding food when the baby is older, taking for walks, carrying in the front-pack or backpack. These are all ways that you can be a loving, involved dad.
- If you use formula, of course you can feed the baby regularly, but if your wife nurses, ask her to consider pumping a bottle of breastmilk for you to feed the baby each day. If you offer the late-night feeding, she'll be even more likely to accommodate your request!
Most importantly, relax and have fun! Your baby will grow up quickly, and you'll want to enjoy every minute of it.
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