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She Won't Break!

New Dads With Newborn Fears

By Jenn Director Knudsen

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Many new dads, like Goldberg, are handling a baby for the first time, so they have no experience to fall back on. "I've never had to care for a baby before, so even things like diapers and baths were pretty new to me," says Goldberg. "Not that any of those things are that hard."

Even Aaron Coe, a new father in Bellevue, Wash., had fears of his own, despite having observed plenty of fathers on the job. "My confidence comes from having seen many others around me cope with the challenges, and we always had a steady channel of books and Internet-based information to help with the academic side of newborn life," says Coe, who was caught off guard when his daughter, Eliana, came nearly three weeks early.

"Oddly, I fear my own mortality much more," says Coe, referring both to wanting to be around for every one of Eliana's life stages, as well as to his assumed role as his child's bank. "I think it is partially due to the notion of fiscal preparedness for her future."

Money Matters
Fear about financial security also is high on dads' list of things to worry about, according to experts like Dr. Andre Stein, psychotherapist, a father of five and author of Father's Milk: Nourishment and Wisdom for the First-time Father.


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